Thanksgiving
Traditions (Option One)
I began my collegiate
journey 2.5 years ago, and that is also when I began to have my own job as
well. So this means I have not been to a family Thanksgiving in 2.5 years, and
so many things will have changed since I’ve attended this holiday with my
family (people have had kids, gotten married, etc.). So instead I’ll talk about
the Thanksgiving traditions I have at work and at home alone.
Every
year on Thanksgiving Day I either have to wait tables or write a paper. So on the occasions that I work, we do not
have a traditional Thanksgiving feast at the restaurant. The cooks fix
breakfast for us. We normally have biscuits, cheese grits, eggs, and donuts.
These are “American” foods, but not foods for Thanksgiving (traditionally).
Then once we’ve all filled our plates to the brim we all sit in the bar and
watch the Macy’s day parade. You may wonder how we have time for this on a work
day. Well our restaurant is open, but we do not serve traditional Thanksgiving
fare. So obviously we are not a hot spot on that holiday. If people go out to
eat on Thanksgiving they typically go out to find a traditional meal without
the dishes. That traditional meal is one of the things that makes this holiday
so special. You get to eat foods that you or someone else doesn’t prepare every
day. It is also a time to reflect on the blessings you have. On the
Thanksgiving days that I have a paper due instead, I just sit at home and write
the paper while watching the Macy’s Parade, the dog show, Charlie Brown’s Thanksgiving, and Garfield’s Thanksgiving (I’m a huge cartoon fan). Last year I
worked on my drag queen study paper (which I presented at PKP last week). There
isn’t really any food until my parents come home and I get some of the left
overs. To top it all off I’m usually the one to make the turkey or ham the day
before Thanksgiving since my Mom always works that Wednesday. So my
Thanksgivings are never traditional any more in the sense of Siskind’s The
Invention of Thanksgiving: A Ritual of American Tradition.
In
Siskind’s article she explains the traditional Thanksgiving layout (pg. 20-22).
Women cook the food, which is not the case for me. At the restaurant most of
our cooks are men. She also says men watch violent games on TV, and this does
happen at the restaurant. When men want to get away from the family or don’t
have one, they come in on Thanksgiving and watch football. But they don’t order
anything (too stuffed), but instead they just drink beer. She also
suggests that it is a time for giving thanks and being with others. On Thanksgiving
I may not be with my family and enjoy a turkey, but I do take time to say a
long prayer and thank God for everything that I have. I know without Him I
would have nothing. So a traditional Thanksgiving is not necessary, and the main
point of the day is to give thanks. As long as that’s done, the rest doesn’t
really matter. Siskind’s view on a traditional Thanksgiving may be relevant to
some, but not so for many.


